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Divorce Party Ideas

Here are some divorce party ideas to get you started on thinking about whether you want it to be a more serious event or a fun one.

Some couples choose to have divorce parties in hopes of easing those close to them into their new status as a divorced couple. Most divorce parties are focused on the individual in honoring their new freedom as an individual.

The Focus

The first thing that you will need to decide is what theme you want to have. The focus of any Divorce Party should be that of empowering the person getting divorced.

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This should mean that no matter what theme is chosen, you should always focus on providing them with positively influenced support. The point of a divorce party is to facilitate healing, not to do things that will make them feel worse about themselves. We will cover some Do's and Don't further down this page.

When To Have A Divorce Party

It is always best to wait until the divorce is final. Up until that point, it is still up in the air as to what will happen from child custody issues, living arrangements and even a possible reconciliation. Make sure to respect the transitional and grieving process and have the party when it is time to focus on the next chapter of their lives.

The Theme

The tone of the party should be based on the comfort levels of the newly single. Some prefer a quiet girls night in, while others might prefer a wild release. Make sure that whatever the divorcée wants for a theme is what is done. This is not a party for the guests, rather it is for the guest of honor and consulting with them will be important. That is why this should not be a surprise party.

Choose a theme based on what is a positive association for the new divorcée . Choose their favorite colors, style of music and even things like their favorite scented candles and foods. Some of the popular divorce themes are -

  • Survivor- such as a cast away that returns home.
  • Butterfly- symbolizes transformation.
  • Lemons- When life hands you lemons, you make lemonade.
  • Naughty Girl- For the more wild, with sexy costumes and fun sexual themes.
  • Getaway- This is when the guests take the new divorcée on a fun trip for a vacation. While Las Vegas is a very popular destination, there are also great spa retreats all over the world for a time of pampering and pleasure.

The Guests

After a divorce, it may be tricky as to whom to invite. The best course of action is to make sure you ask the divorcée as to whom they are comfortable with having and let the guests decide for themselves as to whether or not they are coming. Guests should all be people who care about the person getting divorce and who will bring a positive vibe to the party.

Make sure to avoid having children, especially the children of those getting divorced. It is not appropriate for them to have this emotional experience no matter the situation. This is about a party for the dissolution of a partnership not a family. Also avoid inviting work colleagues, unless they are very close friends as it is not a good idea to bring your dirty laundry into the office.

If you have a couples divorce party where both of the partners getting divorced attend, do not be surprised if not many guests show up. It is a scary proposition for many people to come to something that they may perceive as sad and painful. That is not to say that you should not have one, rather it is to be realistic and understanding of those guests that feel it is just too much for them to deal with emotionally. One tip may be to send an invitation that is from the both of you and explain what the focus will be with a positive message encouraging people to come and support you both during this life change.

Ultimately the guest list should be up to the new divorcée based on their comfort levels for cutting lose in front of specific guests. After all, this is about letting go... not putting on social graces to impress.

Bring Gifts

It does not have to be a formal process such as a gift registry, but it should be something that the guests do. After all, this is one of the most stressful thing a person will do in their life and giving them a little gift is a nice gesture.

However, if a person lost many of their their possessions in the divorce, it can be beneficial to register. If you want to get them something like a sex toy, but are not sure what they would like you can always get them an adult gift card that allows them to choose.

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Sexual Gifts - Make Sure They Are Nontoxic

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Things To Avoid

  • We highly discourage any party where excessive drinking or drug use is going to occur as this most definitely can be a recipe for disaster. Below we will cover divorce party tips to help make your party a success.
  • Do not bring people to the party for the divorcée to hook up with. This is about celebrating independence, not a one night stand or date night.
  • Do not video tape or photograph this unless the divorcée requests it and do not share any pictures online or with anyone. This should be a private event and one that is for the experience, not the memories.
  • Do not make any attempts to prank the divorcée 's ex. This is a party of empowerment, not revenge.
  • Do not burn wedding pictures of anything that children of the divorce may want someday.
  • Do not destroy the divorce papers, you may need those for legal purposes at some point.
  • Do not put down marriage in general, rather chalk it up to this just being something that was not right for the divorcée and focus more on the positive things they will focus on now.

Things To Do

  • Have a burning ceremony where the divorcée burns the marriage certificate or have the divorcée write down things they will not miss and want to say good-bye to and then burn it in a safe manner to symbolize letting go. If you cannot burn, you can bury, flush or even shred.
  • Play fun, empowering music with good divorce themes.
  • Pay fun games that encourage laughter. See adult party games.

Divorce Party Drinks

You can make a divorce party even more fun by having themed cocktails, a wine tasting and even drinks with funny names like-

  • The Divorce -
    3 oz Ginger Ale, 3 oz Wildberry Schnapps

  • Screw You -
    1 oz.Kahlua, 2 oz Strawberry Liqueur, 1 oz Vodka - serve with lime.

  • Sex On The Beach -
    0.5 full Cranberry juice, 0.75 oz. Peach Schnapps, 0.5 full Pineapple Juice, 1 oz. Vodka

  • What The Hell -
    1 oz. Hiram Walker Apricot Brandy, 1 oz. Gin, 1 dash Lemon juice, 1 oz. dry Vermouth

  • Kamikaze -
    1 oz Lime juice, 1 oz Hiram Walker Triple Sec, 1 oz Vodka

  • Cosmopolitan -
    1 oz Cointreau, 3 oz Cranberry juice, 0.5 oz Lemon juice, 1 slice Lime, 2 oz Vodka

  • Irish Car Bomb -
    1 pint Guinness Beer, 1 shot Bailey Irish Cream, 1 shot Jameson Rye / Whiskey

  • Redheaded Slut -
    1 splash Cranberry juice, 0.5 oz Peach Schnapps, 0.75 oz Jagermeister

  • Alabama Slammer -
    1 oz Hiram Walker Amaretto, 3 oz Orange juice, 1 oz Hiram Walker Sloe gin, 1 oz Southern Comfort

  • Slap A DA Balls -
    4 oz Lemonade, 2 oz lemon vodka, serve with
    2 balls of cantaloupe

Divorce Cakes

Divorce Cake Ideas

There are many funny and symbolic things you can do when putting together a divorce cake. From homemade to a fine piece of art, you can do something along with a specific theme, color scheme and even something shocking.

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Divorce Themed Movies & Music

Divorce Movies & Breakup Movies:

  • First Wives Club
  • Le Divorce
  • War of the Roses
  • Waiting to Exhale
  • Eat, Pray, Love
  • Under the Tuscan Sun
  • Heartburn
  • It's Complicated
  • Something's Gotta Give
  • Nights in Rodanthe
  • Baby Boom
  • Mrs. Doubtfie
  • Forgetting Sarah Marshall
  • Parenthood
  • Must Love Dogs
  • Erin Brockovich
  • My Best Friend's Wedding
  • Something to Talk About
  • Sleeping with the Enemy
  • America's Sweethearts
  • Broadcast News
  • Better Off Dead
  • Death Becomes Her
  • Overboard
  • Music and Lyrics
  • One Fine Day
  • The Wedding Singer
  • Boys on the Side
  • 500 Days of Summer
  • The Bridges of Madison County
  • Working Girl
  • Private Benjamin
  • Titanic
  • Pleasantville
  • Fear
  • He's Just Not That Into You

Divorce Songs & Breakup Songs Party Playlist:

  • I Will Survive - Gloria Gaynor
  • Love Stinks - The J. Geils Band
  • Good-bye To You - Scandal
  • 50 Ways To Leave Your Lover - Paul Simon
  • Hit The Road, Jack - Shirley Horn
  • You're So Vain, Let the River Run & Coming Around Again- Carly Simon
  • Sisters Are Doin' It For Themselves - Aretha Franklin
  • I Don't Care About You - Guns N' Roses
  • Idiot Wind - Bob Dylan
  • I Hope You Die - The Bloodhound Gang
  • Happy Trails - Van Halen
  • The Thrill Is Gone - B.B. King
  • Time For Me To Fly - REO Speedwagon
  • I'm Free - Rolling Stones
  • Whatever Will Be, Will Be (Que Sera, Sera) - Doris Day
  • Here's A Quarter (Call Someone Who Cares) - Travis Tritt
  • Jive Talkin' - Bee Gees
  • Let's Call The Whole Thing Off - Louis Armstrong
  • Lonesome Loser - Little River Band
  • Separate Ways (Worlds Apart) - Journey
  • Ironic & You Oughta Know - Alanis Morrisette
  • Poison - Alice Cooper
  • Little Bird - Annie Lennox
  • Respect - Aretha Franklin
  • You Ain't Seen Nothing Yet & Takin' Care of Business - Bachman-Turner Overdrive
  • You Gotta Fight For Your Right To Party - Beastie Boys
  • Nothin From Nothin - Billy Preston
  • Everybody Wants You - Billy Squier
  • Bad Reputation - Joan Jett / Blackhearts
  • Bounce & You Give Love A Bad Name - Bon Jovi
  • All or Nothin At All- Bruce Springsteen
  • Fuck You - Cee Lo Green
  • Fighter, Beautiful & Dirrty - Christina Aguilera
  • Nobody's Fool & Don't Know What You Got - Cinderella
  • Brick House - The Commodores
  • Who's Sorry Now - Connie Frances
  • Never Surrender - Corey Hart
  • Girls Just Want To Have Fun, She Bop & I Don't Want To Be Your Friend - Cyndi Lauper
  • Bad Day - Daniel Powter
  • I Can't Go For That - Daryll Hall & John Oates
  • I Hear Ya Knocking - Dave Edmunds
  • Survivor - Destiny's Child
  • Good-bye Earl & Let ER Rip - Dixie Chicks
  • Intentional Heartache - Dwight Yoakam
  • Don't Bring Me Down - ELO (Electric Light Orchestra)
  • Don't Stop & Go Your Own Way - Fleetwood Mac
  • We Are The Champions & The Show Must Go On - Queen
  • Wasted Days & Wasted Nights - Freddie Fender
  • Crazy - Gnarls Barkley
  • Who Will You Run To - Heart
  • What A Feeling - Irene Cara
  • Looking For A New Love - Jody Watley
  • Naughty Naughty - John Parr
  • Leave (Get Out) - JoJo
  • You've Got Another Thing Coming - Judas Priest
  • Love's Been A Little Bit Hard On Me & It's A Heartache - Juice Newton
  • The Lover's Are Losing - Keane
  • I Can't Stay - The Killers
  • Poker Face & Teeth - Lady Gaga
  • I Hope You Dance - Lee Ann Womack
  • You Don't Own Me - Lesley Gore
  • You're No Good - Linda Rodstadt
  • All Cried Out - Lisa Lisa
  • Tainted Love - Marilyn Manson
  • Harder To Breathe - Maroon 5
  • He Thinks He'll Keep Her, I Feel Lucky & I Take My Chances - Mary Chapin Carpenter
  • Beat It - Michael Jackson
  • Can't Be Tamed, Liberty Walk & Every Rose Has It's Thorn - Miley Cyrus
  • Burn It To The Ground & Never Again - Nickelback
  • Pocketful of Sunshine - Natasha Bedingfield
  • Everybody Got Their Something - Nikka Costa
  • So What, Trouble, Fuckin' Perfect & Mean - Pink
  • Hit Me With Your Best Shot - Pat Benetar
  • You're Cheatin' Heart - Patsy Cline
  • Blame It On Your Heart - Patty Loveless
  • The Warrior - Patty Smyth
  • Harden My Heart - Quarterflash
  • Under Pressure- Queen & David Bowie
  • Highway To Hell & Mama Weer All Crazie Now - Quiet Riot
  • C'est La Vie - Robbie Nevil
  • None of Your Business - Salt-N-Peppa
  • A Change Is Gonna Come - Sam Cooke
  • Higher Love - Steve Winwood
  • Stop Draggin' My Heart Around - Stevie Nicks
  • Make Me Wanna Die - The Pretty Reckless
  • I Wanna Be Sedated - The Ramones
  • Unpretty - TLC
  • I'll Be Over You - Toto
  • Let's Go - Trick Daddy
  • TROUBLE - Travis Tritt
  • It's Raining Men- The Weather Girls
  • Here I Go Again - Whitesnake
  • I Saw The Light - Wynonna
  • Keep Your Mind Wide Open - AnnaSophia Robb
  • Grounds for Divorce- Elbow
  • After My Divorce- Looker
  • Ain't Divorce Grand- Lisa Bell

Examples of songs about divorce that are more about the down side of it and that may not be good for a party atmosphere are-

  • D.I.V.O.R.C.E. - Dottie West, Tammy Wynette, Dolly Parton
  • The Day She Got Divorced- Reba McEntire
  • Divorce Court - The Five Du-Tones

Divorce Party Trends

Divorce Wedding Rings

Divorce rings have become a popular trend to signify the end of a unhealthy relationship. Divorce rings can have a break or groove in them; they are often not a full circle. Many jewelers carry divorce rings, which are also referred to as are transition rings, unengagement rings and sometimes the fuck you ring. Some people have their wedding ring redesigned for this purpose and even wear it on their middle finger. Divorce rings can offer comfort to the wearer that they have made the right decision for them and that they are committed to it. Some worry that wearing a divorce ring will cause them more grief. However, those that wear divorce rings have said of wearing the rings that they are better able to transition to their new lives and feel that it is empowering.

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Divorce Party Music Suggestions

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Divorce Wedding Ring Caskets

Less popular than the divorce ring is the divorce wedding ring casket which is also a new trend. This is literally a mini casket that houses a wedding ring and can be buried. The act of grieving a marriage and having a funeral for it is something some people find healing and the point of these products. There a a variety of companies that make them and they can be found easily online through search terms- wedding ring casket or wedding ring coffin.

Have Fun With Divorce Parties

Most divorce parties are with all one sex and are similar to bachelor or bachelorette parties in that they are silly and wildly focused on sex. This is the most popular way to celebrate a divorce and is great for letting off some steam. Make sure to see some of the divorce party suggestions that we have in regard to the mild to the wild on our Divorce Party Supplies page. No matter what the party should have rejuvenating effect.

Divorce Party Ideas

Divorce Party Supplies

We offer you a variety of resources for your divorce party. Below are recommended divorce party supplies that we highly recommend along with coupon information on how to get the lowest prices! Choose from divorce party supplies such as - divorce party invitations, divorce party decorations such as the Divorce Diva theme. Explore how to pick the perfect divorce party cake, divorce party favors and divorce party theme.

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